By Dr. David Jowdy of Hansa Center for Optimum Health
I was reminded recently of how important it is to have a positive network of support in our lives. We recently had a husband and wife visit our clinic that really put this into perspective for me. The wife, who is battling a devastating condition was here for treatment and the husband was along for support. I’ve been in practice for 11 years and I’ve never seen any man care for and treat his wife the way this man did. The amount of patience and kindness, his willingness to do anything and everything for his wife, his ability to stay calm, cool, collected in the midst all the pain and debility that she was going through is just truly courageous in my mind.
Beyond this, I truly believe that the love and support that this man shows his wife keeps her pushing forward and in a state of perpetual hope that her condition will improve. I’ve seen, way too many times than I’d like to admit, that those of us with challenges in life are not empowered with the love and support of those around us and thus fail to live up to those challenges. In health, the repercussions of that can be devastating.
Take a look around you and make an inventory of those people that you spend the most time with. Are they supportive of your endeavors? Do they provide you with the love and support necessary to achieve your goals? Do you feel that you are a better person because they are a part of your life? This is the type of support system that we all need.
If the answer to these questions is YES, you’re path to health and happiness is grounded and solid. If the answer is NO, it’s time to re-evaluate and communicate with others to let them your needs. Others may be doing their best to help and guide you, but don’t really know how. Let them know what they can do for you. Spend more time with those who empower you and make you a better person. Educate those around you so they understand the path you are taking and can provide better support.
No one can do it alone. Build a team of individuals that are there for you and share your goals and aspirations.
Well said Dr. J......
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